F*ck Around and Find Out Parenting

乱搞一气,方知育儿之道

Good Inside with Dr. Becky

2025-04-15

19 分钟
PDF

单集简介 ...

“F*ck Around and Find Out” parenting—what even is that?! This week, Dr. Becky dives into the rise of the FAFO parenting trend. Why is this approach gaining traction in the age of gentle parenting? Is it a pushback against gentle or intensive parenting? A response to the burnout many millennial parents are feeling? Or has it always been around, just under a different name? Dr. Becky explores what makes this trend so compelling and what it might reveal about us as parents today. Sometimes FAFO parenting comes up when our kids are in a bad place with bad behavior. If you can relate, then you won't want to miss "Why Is Everything a Battle?" Dr. Becky's Live Workshop on Power Struggles, Defiance, and Strong-Willed Kids happening on Thursday, Apr 17 from 01:30 PM - 02:45 PM EDT. RSVP here: https://bit.ly/3RqW7nU. Get the Good Inside App by Dr. Becky: https://bit.ly/4fSxbzk Follow Dr. Becky on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drbeckyatgoodinside Sign up for our weekly email, Good Insider: https://www.goodinside.com/newsletter For a full transcript of the episode, go to goodinside.com/podcast. Today’s episode is brought to you by Ritual. You know that feeling when you’re going a million miles an hour, jumping from one thing to the next? You’re trying to finish an email when you remember the laundry’s still in the washer, your kid is shouting about needing poster board for a project due tomorrow, your pone won’t stop buzzing, and—oh, great—you forgot that tonight is parent-teacher conferences. Sometimes, life is just… a lot. Stress doesn’t have an off-switch. And we can support our body’s natural response to it. That’s why I love Ritual’s Stress Relief, featuring BioSeries technology. It’s designed to work with your body to help manage everyday stress. If you feel like daily stress is taking a toll on your body and mind, you might want to give them a try. Get Ritual Stress Relief and save 25% on your first month at ritual.com/goodinside. Today’s episode is brought to you by Airbnb. Recently, I’ve been on the road spreading the word about my new children's book, That’s My Truck: A Good Inside Story About Hitting!. I’m so grateful and excited to be on this book tour, connecting with our community in person. And it’s also true that being away from home can feel hard. That’s why I love Airbnb–I can find and book a place that feels just a little bit more like home away from home, somewhere I can come back to at the end of the day and recharge. Something else I love about Airbnb is that you can become a host while you’re away by offering your home to someone traveling to your town!  Your home might be worth more than you think. Find out how much at airbnb.com/host.
更多

单集文稿 ...

  • Okay, FAFO parenting.

  • Boy, am I excited to jump into this with you.

  • I have so many thoughts, so many reactions.

  • Let me say right from the start, I want to talk about what this acronym means.

  • And that involves choice words that you might not want your kids to hear.

  • So if you just picked up your kid from school,

  • from a play date, maybe press pause and play a little bit later.

  • Okay, what is FAFO parenting?

  • Well, let me name it right up front.

  • And there's something in the naming of it that kind of shares something about its essence.

  • Fuck around and find out.

  • Fuck around and find out parenting.

  • Now, you might think I still don't really know what it means.

  • I've never heard of this.

  • Let me explain some kind of examples that bring it to life.

  • My kid wants to run around outside without shoes.

  • All right.

  • You're going to fuck around and find out what it feels like to step on a nail.

  • My kid forgot their homework at home.

  • All right.