Maternal Instinct & Other Stories We've Inherited

母性本能及其他传承故事

Good Inside with Dr. Becky

2025-05-06

24 分钟
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What if the idea of maternal instinct isn’t an inherent truth—but a cultural narrative that sets parents, especially mothers, up for self-doubt and isolation? In this episode, Dr. Becky invites us into a space of curiosity, questioning where our thoughts about parenting "naturally" come from, and why we might expect ourselves to figure it all out alone. Together with a close friend, she unpacks the quiet pressures baked into motherhood and challenges the comforting-yet-limiting binary of maternal instinct. What might parenting look like if we gave ourselves permission to learn, struggle, and seek support—just like we do in every other role? In honor of Mother’s Day, save 25% on any Good Inside Membership - our biggest sale of the year! You deserve real support, expert guidance, and a community that gets it. https://bit.ly/4kpFEgr Get the Good Inside App by Dr. Becky: https://bit.ly/4fSxbzk Follow Dr. Becky on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drbeckyatgoodinside Sign up for our weekly email, Good Insider: https://www.goodinside.com/newsletter For a full transcript of the episode, go to goodinside.com/podcast. Today’s episode is brought to you by Midi. ****Two things are true: There are great things that come with age and there are some not-so-great things. If you’re a woman in mid-life, you know what I’m talking about: insomnia, brain fog, mood changes, sleep disruptions. It feels hard because it is hard, and you deserve resources and support through this phase of life. That's where Midi Health comes in. Midi Health clinicians are specialized perimenopause and menopause experts. They get it. They're not going to tell you it's "all in your head." They’re not going to dismiss your concerns or struggles. Instead, they offer real solutions: safe, effective, FDA-approved medications when needed, plus guidance on supplements, lifestyle changes, and preventative healthcare. Midi is covered by most major insurances —plus, you can connect with their clinicians through convenient telehealth visits and 24/7 messaging. You deserve to feel great. Book your virtual visit today at JoinMidi.com. Today’s episode is brought to you by Great Wolf Lodge. As a mom of three kids, I’m always on the lookout for family adventures that offer something for everyone (including myself!). That’s why Great Wolf Lodge is high on our list of future destinations! They offer a world of fun, all under one roof, including water slides, a lazy river, a massive wave pool, arcade games, mini golf and nightly dance parties! With 23 locations all across North America, and more on the way, chances are there’s a Great Wolf Lodge just a short drive away from you. You can save up to 40% off on any stay at Great Wolf Lodge from now through August 31st when you book at participating lodges. Just visit GreatWolf.com and enter the promo code “GoodInside” – when you book.
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  • So there's a topic I can't stop thinking about.

  • I talk about it with a lot of my friends.

  • I'm talking about it at work all the time.

  • I've been talking about it on other people's podcasts.

  • And if I'm honest,

  • I think I've been nervous to like really put all my thoughts together in one place here.

  • I'll just put my cards kind of on the table.

  • The topic is maternal instinct and how I feel about those two words together.

  • And the way the narrative of maternal instinct has just completely infiltrated the way I think so many of us think about our role as a mom.

  • My heart's racing because maybe in some ways my body is telling me this is a hot topic.

  • This is going to get a strong reaction.

  • This is something that is so built in.

  • to culture and in some ways is built into the foundation of how the world works.

  • But watch out.

  • The other thing I know about myself is I try to say what feels true to me.

  • In some ways, so much of good inside started because of these moments.

  • I was like, hold on a second.

  • Punishment, time out, sticker charts.

  • I know this is what everyone thinks is like the truth and it's what I learned and that's what I started to practice but there's something inside me that's saying I don't know about this.

  • Maybe there's a different way to see this.