Navigating the Parent-Grandparent Dynamic

驾驭祖孙关系之道

Good Inside with Dr. Becky

2025-09-02

46 分钟
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In honor of Grandparents Day, Dr. Becky takes questions from both sides: She hears from parents who feel stuck between gratitude and frustration about their parents’ involvement, and from grandparents who feel both needed and dismissed. Together, these conversations highlight the messy and necessary reality of building strong, emotionally healthy families across generations. Get the Good Inside App by Dr. Becky: https://bit.ly/4fSxbzk Your Good Inside membership might be eligible for HSA/FSA reimbursement! To learn more about how to get your membership reimbursed, check out the link here: https://www.goodinside.com/fsa-hsa-eligibility/ Follow Dr. Becky on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drbeckyatgoodinside Sign up for our weekly email, Good Insider: https://www.goodinside.com/newsletter For a full transcript of the episode, go to goodinside.com/podcast. We say it all the time at Good Inside: Taking care of yourself isn’t selfish - it’s self-sustaining. But let’s be honest: Self-care can feel impossible without reliable childcare. That’s where Sittercity comes in. It’s a trusted platform that makes it easier to find sitters who are kind, experienced, and show up when you need them. You can read real parent reviews, connect with sitters directly, and even set up interviews, all in one spot. Whether you’re craving a solo errand run, a date night out, or need after school support, Sittercity can give you the logistical support you need to show up for yourself. Find a sitter or nanny that’s perfect for your family at sittercity.com and use code "goodinside" for 25% off the annual or quarterly premium subscription plans. There’s always a moment - maybe two weeks into the school year - where I stop and think: “Wait, wasn’t summer just five minutes ago?” Suddenly, we’re back in the rush of packing lunches, signing permission slips, and struggling to find a pair of matching socks every morning. That’s why I’ve started looking ahead to fall breaks now - before the long-weekend creeps up on me and feels less like a break, and more like being stuck at home for three days with three kids! My go-to for quick getaways? Booking an Airbnb. It’s a reset that still feels like home: games and toys for the kids, a big living room for family movie nights, and even bunk beds that kids claim are “way better than our beds at home.” Plus, do you ever think about how you can host your own home on Airbnb for another family to enjoy while you’re away? It’s a great way to earn a little extra income to put towards your own trip, school supplies, or next season’s cleats. Your home might be worth more than you think. Find out how much at airbnb.com/host. If you’re anything like me, you’re running out of summer activity ideas for your kids! Well, exciting news for parents everywhere: Good Inside just teamed up with the Play-Doh brand and Walmart to bring you a video series on how to help kids build life-long skills like imagination, confidence, and frustration tolerance - all through open-ended play! The best part: I promise this isn’t another thing to add to your already packed plate as a parent. No hours of prep, no need for picture-perfect setups. All you need is a Play-Doh can or two. We also made a guide with “5 Steps to Open-ended Play” that you can literally download on the Good Inside blog and try today. (Full disclosure: I printed the guide out and stuck it on my fridge as a reminder for myself - after all, my kids get “mom” at home, not Dr. Becky!) Head to walmart.com/playdoh to watch the videos. I can’t wait to hear what your kid creates.
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  • So National Grandparent Day is coming up and this is the perfect time to jump into so many questions that I hear from parents all the time.

  • What do I do when my parent criticizes me?

  • What do I do with all the feelings I have toward my parent about all the things I know now kids need and I didn't get?

  • How involved should my parents be?

  • Why am I still so desperate for my own parents' approval and from the grandparent end I get questions?

  • How can I be involved in my kid's life in a way that actually feels good for the family?

  • Why is my kid so activated when I make one tiny comment about something I might do differently?

  • How can I be very involved in my kid's life and my grandkid?

  • but still respect the fact that I'm getting older and maybe can't do the things I used to be able to do.

  • These are all the questions we're going to get into and this is the most amazing episode for both parents to listen to and grandparents to listen to,

  • maybe even talk about.

  • Grandparents are more involved in their grandkids lives than ever.

  • A recent survey showed that 60% of grandmothers have provided childcare for a grand kid and 40% see a grand kid every week.

  • When we talk about raising kids,

  • we cannot leave out the dynamic with grandparents because it is so powerful in a kid's life,

  • and it can have a lot of different impacts on our life as well.

  • I'm Dr.

  • Becky, and this is Good Inside.

  • We'll be back right after this.

  • We'll start off with some questions from parents.