How To Stop Comparing Your Journey And Start Developing Greatness | Eric Thomas

如何停止比较你的旅程,开始成就卓越 | 埃里克·托马斯

The Daily Motivation

2026-01-09

6 分钟
PDF

单集简介 ...

Leave an Amazon Rating or Review for my New York Times Bestselling book, Make Money Easy! Check out the full episode: https://greatness.lnk.to/1871 Eric Thomas went to college for one reason: to be with his wife, Didi. That's it. Not for the degree, not for the career, just for her. So when they got married, he figured he was done. But she looked at him and said something that changed everything: "I can't be with you if you don't finish what you start." That moment launched him on a 12-year journey to complete a four-year degree while living with the weight of an absent father, growing up in abandoned warehouses, and getting kicked out of school. He didn't get his PhD until he was 44. And instead of seeing himself as behind, he realized something profound: the further you pull back a slingshot, the more powerful the release. His delays weren't failures. They were preparation for the impact he was meant to make. Here's what will hit you hardest about this conversation: Eric could have blamed everything and everyone for holding him down. The circumstances were real. The struggles were legitimate. But the breakthrough came when he realized the greatest enemy wasn't outside circumstances. It was himself. When you compare your timeline to someone else's, you're measuring your journey against someone who has completely different strengths, weaknesses, and purposes. The person graduating in four years might be heading toward a traditional job. You might be preparing to change the world. That takes longer. So stop judging yourself by someone else's clock. The obstacles only hold you down when you allow them to. When you shift from "outside inside" thinking to "inside out" living, everything changes. You're not behind. You're being developed. Sign up for the Greatness newsletter: http://www.greatness.com/newsletter Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
更多

单集文稿 ...

  • Hi, my name is Lewis Howes and welcome to the Daily Motivation Show.

  • Wow.

  • That's why I went to college.

  • And so once I got to college and we got married, I was like, yo, I got what I wanted.

  • And she was like, OK, we're going to have to do this again.

  • Yeah, yeah, yeah.

  • I can't be with you if you don't finish what you start.

  • So then I had to go ahead and do this business again.

  • Wow.

  • And I started the speaking career in the middle of that as well.

  • There's a lot of pressure for people to accomplish certain things by certain ages.

  • But it took you 12 years to graduate college, right?

  • So you're in your 30s or whatever.

  • And then you're 44 when you got a PhD.

  • What do you say to some of the younger generation that feels like they're a failure

  • if they don't accomplish things by 20 or 25 that they feel like they're supposed to accomplish?

  • So here's where I went with that.

  • One of the dangerous things is the outside inside theory.

  • It's dangerous.

  • Because what you're doing, whether you know it or not,