2025-12-23
7 分钟Hi, my name is Lewis Howes and welcome to the Daily Motivation Show.
What are the core reasons or the core things you see over and over that either end or make a relationship challenging to be in the longer end?
What are the challenges that come up over and over that you see?
I think there's a number of things in a relationship that that that become just cornerstones of the demise,
okay?
And I'm not going to list them in order, but they all are part of each other.
Indifference and contempt and neglect and violence are probably the four most important.
I'm not talking about big violence, microaggressions are plenty.
indifference.
When you start to feel like the other person fundamentally is not really caring about you anymore or you don't care about them.
What they feel, what they think, who they are, what they're about.
They just don't care.
You've lost interest.
But it's more than losing of interest.
It's also when you are indifferent, you degrade the other person.
They're less important to you.
They don't matter.
And ultimately what we feel in relationships is that we matter.
That is the essential reason for connecting to people, is that we are creatures of meaning.
I matter to you.