2025-12-05
22 分钟One of the things I'll be thinking about in terms of seduction, if I want to be,
because one of the central things I need to understand, as you said,
that the pickup artist community learned is, is what actually leads to the outcome.
Because if I was to ask a woman, hey, how can I become more attractive to a woman?
I guess what she might say to me is, be nice, be, you know, what I don't know.
I've asked that question to so many women in my life.
And I've never gotten a good answer because that's almost always the response is, I want a kind man.
I want a man who is, I feel safe with.
I want a man who is loving.
And usually the guy in question is listening to that and be like, what the fuck's the problem?
It's like, I'm kind of shit.
Like, I don't get it.
Like, I need to be kinder and they start to lean into that even more.
And.
I don't think that these women are necessarily lying to these men,
but they're leaving out the most important part.
One of my most popular YouTube videos is the part that women always leave out that speaks exactly to this problem,
which is that women do want those things that they list off when men ask them that question.
They just want them from the men that they're attracted to.
They want the men they're attracted to to be kind and to be loving and to be generous and to make them feel safe.