2025-12-01
1 小时 21 分钟I've got a difficult conversation I want to have with someone and they might be a narcissist.
So let's stop there because if you just blatantly label somebody as being a narcissist,
you're not going to be able to really understand who this person is and why they are the way they are.
But when you need to go into a dark conversation to make things simple,
there are four things that you can do because we all have those conversations.
We have a supervisor who we feel is overlooking us in a promotion,
maybe our spouse we got to fight with,
your friend who's betrayed us,
and they're cloaked in so much emotion or so much tension that you don't know how to handle that.
But there's also three things that you should stop doing such as stop telling people you understand.
Why?
This is what we're going to talk about.
For over 30 years,
former Secret Service agent Desmond O'Neill has used science-backed interrogation techniques against some of the world's biggest liars.
He's trained elite teams from the FBI to the CIA.
And now, in his first public conversation,
he's laying out the frameworks you need to communicate effectively,
how to lead, and how to get anyone to open up.
When it comes to being able to communicate with somebody,
the victory lies in the little things that you do.