What my disability taught me about parenting

我的残疾教会我的育儿之道

The Conversation

2025-12-01

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What's it like navigating the world as a disabled parent? Datshiane Navanayagam speaks to two women from the US and Italy about the reality of parenting with a disability and about why it’s important to reconsider some of the common misconceptions that exist within society around the kind of life that disabled mothers can provide for their children. Jessica Slice is an American disabled author, speaker and essayist who now lives in Toronto with her husband and two children. She was diagnosed with an autonomic nervous system disorder in her twenties after a strenuous hike while on holiday in Greece. The condition changed her life forever – requiring her to use a wheelchair and sometimes experiencing chronic pain - but it also made her consider having children, seriously for the very first time. Her book, Unfit Parent: A Disabled Mother Challenges An Inaccessible World chronicles some of the obstacles that disabled parents face, and examines the societal beliefs that underpin those barriers. Laura Coccia from Italy is a former Paralympian who is now a representative at the European Disability Forum. She now lives in Brussels and says she faces stigma everyday as a mother with a form of cerebral palsy. She wrote a weekly online diary about her pregnancy as a disabled woman in 2019, giving a candid insight to some of the challenges she faced, but also how she was going through the same things as any other pregnant woman. She has also co-authored a children's book called La Sedia Magica della Mamma, created to show disability not as an obstacle but as a natural part of life. Produced by Emily Naylor and Hannah Dean (Image: (L) Jessica Slice credit Vanessa Heins. (R) Laura Coccia courtesy Laura Coccia.)
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  • Hello, I'm Dashiani Navanagam and welcome to the conversation from the BBC World Service.

  • This is the show which amplifies women's voices,

  • allowing us to hear experiences and insights from all around the world.

  • Today,

  • we're exploring what it's like to be a mother with a disability in a world that isn't necessarily accepting and not always designed with disabled parents in mind.

  • Joining me are Laura Cotcher from Italy and Jessica Slice from the United States.

  • Laura is a historian former Paralympic athlete and the representative for the Cerebral Palsy European Communities Association.

  • And Jessica is an author and essayist whose new book, Unfit Parent,

  • a Disabled Mother Challenges an Inaccessible World,

  • examines the myths surrounding disability and parenthood.

  • Laura and Jessica, a very warm welcome to the conversation.

  • Hello.

  • Thank you so much for having me.

  • I'm thrilled to be here.

  • Thank you for inviting me.

  • I wanted to start by asking both of you,

  • what is your favourite but most unexpected thing about being a mother?

  • Is there anything that just simply took your breath away and caught you completely by surprise?