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Hello and welcome to welcome back to trying it to care if you're new here.
My name is Ashley I upload every single Monday,
and we just chat for a little bit I give you some advice I give you some recommendations sometimes a I just be yapping but today I Want to talk about this idea of going from enemies to lovers but with yourself.
The idea to do this episode came to me from a Pinterest meme actually and the meme said enemies to lovers but it took myself and I was like hell yeah absolutely yes I I want to do an episode on that.
Enemies to lover stories usually start out with two people who absolutely despise each other.
Everything that person does is so annoying they're so frustrating they just Get under your skin.
The thing about hating someone that much is it's passionate.
You feel so deeply for that person even if it's not in a loving way.
You hate them with a burning passion.
But the thing about passion is it can switch.
You hate them but you're constantly thinking about them.
So what
if somewhere between you thinking about them you start viewing them as who they are rather than who you believe them to be.
Instead of villainizing them,
you start looking at them as a person with feelings and you start to at least try to understand them and the things that they've gone through.
And you see them as more than just their mistakes or their imperfections.
Well, that's when the passion might just turn from hate into love.
Take Blair and Chuck Bass from Gossip Girl, for example.
Spoiler, if you haven't watched, but I mean, come on, it's been over 10 years.