263: Communication in Couples Therapy with Shane Birkel

263: 与Shane Birkel探讨伴侣治疗中的沟通

The Couples Therapist Couch

2025-10-14

34 分钟
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This episode is brought to you by Alma. Visit https://helloalma.com/dg/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=paid&utm_campaign=privatepractice to learn more Get the Couples Therapy 101 course: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/ Join the Couples Therapist Inner Circle: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/inner-circle-new Join The Couples Therapist Couch Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/295562197518469/ In this solo episode, Shane talks communication in couples therapy. Hear how to help your clients get back to basics with communication, the correct ways to be a speaker and listener, why communication often breaks down for couples, why we naturally get defensive, and the importance of getting consent from your partner.
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  • If that partner walks in and starts venting and their partner's on in a space to listen,

  • they might start making up all kinds of stuff in their mind about why their partner isn't listening to them.

  • Hey everybody, welcome back to the couples therapist couch.

  • This is Shane Burkle and this is the podcast that's all about the practice of couples therapy Thank you so much

  • for tuning in.

  • I'm a licensed marriage and family therapist and the goal of this podcast is to help you learn how to more effectively work with couples and possibly even learn how to have a better relationship The episode this week is brought to you by ALMA.

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  • This week, I want to get into the topic of communication.

  • A lot of times when couples come in to couples therapy,

  • the first thing they say is, we can't communicate.

  • Our communication is breaking down.

  • We can't get through to each other.

  • And it may seem like a simple or basic thing, but I think it's really,

  • really important and I think it's sometimes it's just good to get back to basics.

  • So I'm gonna get into that,

  • but I think there are a lot deeper reasons why people struggle with communication.

  • I mean, I think when you think about communication,

  • You might think, well, it seems pretty straightforward.