How to strengthen your relationships — one airport ride at a time (w/ Kasley Killam)

如何一步步加强您的人际关系——从一次机场旅程开始(与Kasley Killam)

How to Be a Better Human

2025-10-06

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How often do you connect with different people each week? How many many close relationships do you aim to cultivate during those connections? And how long do these interactions last? Kasley Killam has the perfect guide to help you build better social connections – the 5-3-1 Rule. Kasley is a social scientist and the author of The Art of Science and Connection. Kasley joins Chris to discuss the future of social connection – why do we invest in physical health but not social health? And what happens when you substitute companionship for AI chatbots? Kasley shares tips on how to connect with your community and rethink social norms on technology. Follow Host: Chris Duffy (Instagram: @chrisiduffy | chrisduffycomedy.com) Guest: Kasley Killam (Instagram: @kasleykillam | LinkedIn: @kasleykillam | Website: https://www.kasleykillam.com/)  Links TED Talk: Why social health is key to happiness and longevity Substack: Social Health with Kasley Killam Book: https://www.kasleykillam.com/social-health-book Newsletter: https://www.kasleykillam.com/newsletter Subscribe to TED  Instagram: @ted YouTube: @TED TikTok: @tedtoks LinkedIn: @ted-conferences Website: ted.com Podcasts: ted.com/podcasts For the full text transcript, visit go.ted.com/BHTranscripts How to Be a Better Human is nominated for the Signal Award for Best Advice & How To. Vote here! Interested in learning more about upcoming TED events? Follow these links: TEDNext: ted.com/futureyou Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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  • You're listening to How to Be a Better Human.

  • I am your host, Chris Duffy.

  • This is an episode of our podcast that has had a direct and immediate impact on my life.

  • My family and I just moved and I was totally overwhelmed by the boxes and the unpacking and all of the logistics.

  • But because of today's guest, Casley Killam,

  • I sent out an email to a bunch of friends and I asked for help.

  • I was, frankly, very nervous about sending this email.

  • I was worried what people would think.

  • Was I being annoying?

  • Was it a rude task for help?

  • Were people going to stop liking me?

  • But instead, people were so kind and responded and helped us out.

  • And what's more, we had fun.

  • I mean, it was still overwhelming.

  • And I still think moving is extremely unpleasant.

  • It's not like that part changed.

  • But it was a lot less unpleasant than it could have been.

  • And that's because I got so much social support.

  • Today's guest, Casley Kilham,

  • has been studying the importance of social support and connection for years.