Happiness Break: A Science-Backed Path to Self-Forgiveness

幸福休憩:基于科学的自我宽恕之道

The Science of Happiness

2025-09-04

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Through breath, compassion, and kind words to yourself, this guided meditation helps you forgive yourself, let go, and move forward with love.How To Do This Practice: Get Comfortable: Sit upright but relaxed. Close your eyes or soften your gaze, and take a few slow, deep breaths. Inhale gently through your nose and slowly, twice as long, through your mouth. Bring Something to Mind: Think of a mistake, harsh word, or regret you’re holding against yourself. Notice how it feels in your body, without judging it. Acknowledge What Happened: Silently say to yourself: “I acknowledge that I made this mistake.” Take a breath. Remember Your Humanity: Remind yourself: “I am human. Being human means I will sometimes fall short.” Offer Forgiveness: Place a hand over your heart (or somewhere comforting) and repeat: “I forgive myself for this. May I learn from it and move forward.” Close with Kindness: Breathe deeply. Once more, say: “I forgive myself. May I treat myself with kindness.”  Check In with Your Body Again: Notice if anything feels lighter or softer—maybe your breath, your shoulders, or your chest. Allow yourself to rest in that shift, however small. Take one final deep breath: When you feel ready, gently open your eyes and return to your day. Scroll down for a transcription of this episode.  Today’s Happiness Break Guide: DACHER KELTNER is the host of The Science of Happiness podcast and is a co-instructor of the Greater Good Science Center’s popular online course of the same name. He’s also a professor of psychology at the University of California, Berkeley. Related Happiness Break episodes: A Meditation on Original Love: https://tinyurl.com/5u298cv4 Who Takes Care of You: https://tinyurl.com/5xmfkf73 A Note to Self on Forgiveness: https://tinyurl.com/y53tkn87 Related Science of Happiness episodes: Nine Steps to Forgiveness: https://tinyurl.com/vb7kk5ky How to Show Up For Yourself: https://tinyurl.com/56ktb9xc This episode is part of "Putting the Science of Forgiveness into Practice," a multiyear project run by the Greater Good Science Center and supported by the Templeton World Charity Foundation (TWCF). Learn more about forgiveness on TWCF's Discover Forgiveness website. Follow us on Instagram: @ScienceOfHappinessPod We’d love to hear about your experience with this practice! Share your thoughts at happinesspod@berkeley.edu or use the hashtag #happinesspod. Find us on Apple Podcasts: https://tinyurl.com/2p9h5aap Help us share Happiness Break! Leave a 5-star review and share this link: https://tinyurl.com/2p9h5aap Transcription: https://tinyurl.com/yh2a5urt
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  • How much awe and wonder do you experience in your life?

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  • This episode is part of Putting the Science of Forgiveness into Practice,

  • a project by the Greater Good Science Center that's supported by the Templeton World Charity Foundation.

  • Hi, this is Dacher Keltner.

  • On today's happiness break, we're practicing self-forgiveness.

  • Research shows that self-forgiveness can reduce anxiety and depression.

  • lower stress hormones like cortisol, and even improve our physical health.

  • We also know forgiving ourselves helps break cycles of rumination and self-criticism.

  • Instead of getting stuck in regret,

  • self-forgiveness allows us to acknowledge our mistakes with honesty and compassion,

  • and then to move forward with a sense of growth and responsibility.

  • When you're ready, let's begin.

  • Find a comfortable position sitting upright but relaxed.

  • You can close your eyes if that feels right or soften your gaze.

  • Take a deep breath in and a long breath out.