37. How Do You Know if People Don’t Like You?

37. 你如何知道别人是否不喜欢你?

No Stupid Questions

2025-08-31

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Also: do self-help books really help? This episode originally aired on January 31, 2021.
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  • I've never thought that I'm a person who should give advice of any sort.

  • I'm Angela Duckworth.

  • I'm Stephen Dubner.

  • And you're listening to No Stupid Questions.

  • Today on the show, is your perception of yourself at odds with others' perception of you?

  • It's kind of the equivalent of having spinach in your teeth your whole life.

  • Also, do self-help books really work?

  • They probably feel really energized for a moment and then get distracted by what's for lunch.

  • Angela, how are you today?

  • I'm great, Stephen.

  • How are you?

  • I'm pretty well, thanks.

  • I think since we last spoke, you've had your first ever colonoscopy.

  • Did that go well?

  • Yes, I'm 50 and I had a colonoscopy and it was delightful.

  • Congratulations.

  • In our previous episode about first impressions versus last impressions,

  • we discussed a paper about colonoscopies and how changing the ending of them can alter the overall perception.

  • And I have to say, we made a lack of distinction there that I think we should set clear.

  • Which is what?