Hello, welcome to or welcome back to Friendly Care.
If you're new here, my name is Ashley and I post every single Monday.
We just, you know, hang out, we sip our coffee, we chit chat, and we just have little girl time.
It's a fun time.
Last episode I asked
if you'd be interested in me starting the group chat up again so we can all talk and get to know each other better and it seems like a lot of you want that so I'm down.
I just need to figure out what app and like the logistics of it but let me know what you'd want,
like what you'd want me to include because when I did it last time I had a page for affirmations,
coffee of the day, outfits of the day, what we're reading.
So just let me know what you're into and what you'd want in that group chat and
if you're not already,
I'd love if you followed me on Instagram and TikTok.
I post there way more than I post here, probably more than I should.
So if you want to stay up to date with me, that's where to do it.
But anyways, today I want to talk about this idea of you've changed.
people love to throw this around when they see someone growing and growing in a different direction than them they see someone who they either have a friendship with a relationship with or they used to have a connection with or you know even a parasocial relationship with them online
like they don't actually know the person but they watch this person so they think they know them and they see this person changing and changing their life in a way that they don't like and they don't resonate with I have definitely dealt with people like this in my life who would say,
you've changed.
And at the time,
it hurt to hear these people say that because these people were using it as an insult.