What I Wish I Knew in My 20s

我二十岁时最想知道的

The Mel Robbins Podcast

2025-08-11

1 小时 24 分钟
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This is a conversation you need to hear, packed with life advice that will change your future.  It’s what Mel wishes she knew in her 20s and the insight helping her guide her kids right now.  Today, Mel sits down with Dr. Meg Jay. Dr. Jay is a clinical psychologist, professor, and bestselling author of THE book about your 20s: The Defining Decade.  The New York Times called Dr. Jay "the patron saint" of 20-somethings, and today, you’re getting a coaching session with her.  This episode is a wake up call, one backed by research and real-life stories, that will help you stop panicking, start problem-solving, and take control of your future, no matter what age you are.  In this episode, you’ll learn:  -The best advice no one ever told you about your 20s  -The biggest mistakes most people make in work and love—and how to avoid them  -Why 30 is not the new 20—and what’s actually at stake when you wait to “figure it out later”  -Exactly what to do to support any 20 something in your life  -Specific advice for college students and parents of college students  Whether you’re in your 20s, wish you’d done them differently, or love someone going through them, this episode gives you the wisdom and tools you need to build the life you want.  The truth is that no matter what decade of your life you are in, you can make it the best one – and this advice will help you do it.  For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page.  If you liked the episode, check out this one next: Feeling Lost in Your 20s? You Need to Hear This Connect with Mel:    Get Mel’s #1 bestselling book, The Let Them TheoryWatch the episodes on YouTubeFollow Mel on Instagram The Mel Robbins Podcast InstagramMel's TikTok Sign up for Mel’s personal letter Subscribe to SiriusXM Podcasts+ to listen to new episodes ad-freeDisclaimer
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  • Hey, it's your friend Mel, and welcome to the Mel Robbins Podcast.

  • I am so excited about the extraordinary expert that you and I are going to learn from today.

  • Dr. Meg Jay is here in our Boston studios.

  • Now, Dr. Jay wrote the seminal book on what is the hardest decade of everyone's life.

  • which is your 20s.

  • And today, you're gonna get the most important advice about your 20s that no one has ever told you.

  • So if you're in your 20s and you're listening right now,

  • I am so thrilled that you're here because this is exactly what you need to hear right now.

  • It's gonna help so much.

  • You probably thought your 20s were gonna be amazing.

  • So did I. But instead, you can't find a job you like.

  • You're scared that you're not gonna be able to pay for the things that you want or to meet somebody.

  • And in between crying alone in your bedroom or being ghosted by people or never seeing your friends,

  • You just feel lost.

  • Well, Dr. J is here to fix that.

  • Or if you're like me and you have people in your 20s who you love,

  • for example, my husband and I, we have three kids in their 20s,

  • or maybe you have nieces or nephews or friends in their 20s who are struggling with uncertainty and you don't know how to motivate or support them.

  • Well, Dr. J knows how to, and she's here for you.

  • And she has some really great news.