Happiness Break: A Meditation for When Others Are Suffering

幸福小憩:他人受苦时的冥想

The Science of Happiness

2025-08-07

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Witnessing the suffering of others can be deeply painful. In this guided meditation, Anushka Fernandopulle helps you cultivate both compassion and the ability to soothe yourself in the face of that pain. How to Do This Practice: Find somewhere peaceful, sit down and get comfortable. Once you’re ready, gently close or soften your eyes. Start taking deep breaths and relax your body. Part by part, release tension in different areas of your body. Think of someone or a group of people you know or have heard of who may be having a hard time. Bring to mind an image of them. Connect with whatever it is they are struggling with. Mentally, make some wishes of compassion for them. For example, “May you be free from pain.” Or, “I am here with you.” You can also use this practice to focus on your own pain. To do this, call to mind your struggles and give yourself the same compassion you gave others. Scroll down for a transcription of this episode.  Today’s Happiness Break guide: ANUSHKA FERNANDOPULLE is a meditation teacher who trained in Buddhist meditation for over 30 years. After studying Buddhism at Harvard, she spent four years in full-time meditation training in the U.S., India, and Sri Lanka. Check out Anushka’s upcoming meditation retreats: https://www.anushkaf.org Follow Anushka on Instagram: https://tinyurl.com/ytn3vvhz Check out Anushka’s Dharma Talks: https://tinyurl.com/ydacvamn Related Happiness Break episodes: Fierce Self-Compassion Break: https://tinyurl.com/yk9yzh9u Who Takes Care of You: https://tinyurl.com/5xmfkf73 A Self-Compassion Meditation For Burnout: https://tinyurl.com/485y3b4y Related Science of Happiness episodes: How Holding Yourself Can Reduce Stress: https://tinyurl.com/2hvhkwe6 How To Show Up For Yourself: https://tinyurl.com/56ktb9xc Are You Remembering the Good Times: https://tinyurl.com/483bkk2h We’d love to hear about your experience with this practice! Share your thoughts at happinesspod@berkeley.edu or use the hashtag #happinesspod. Find us on Apple Podcasts: https://tinyurl.com/2p9h5aap Help us share Happiness Break! Leave a 5-star review and share this link: https://tinyurl.com/2p9h5aap Transcription: https://tinyurl.com/2tcp2an9
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  • Pain and suffering in life are inevitable.

  • We all go through hard times.

  • And difficult as that may be, sometimes it's even harder to watch someone we care about in pain.

  • I'm Dacher Keltner.

  • Welcome to Happiness Break,

  • where we take a short break to try a practice designed to cultivate calm compassion and ultimately more happiness.

  • Today's practice is a tool for when you find yourself feeling other people's pain and suffering and you're not sure what to do.

  • The literature shows that when we do practice compassion towards others, it has a snowball effect.

  • It increases our own happiness and self-esteem.

  • It also helps us feel more satisfied with our lives.

  • It's an opportunity to step out of our own worries and ruminations,

  • which can actually make us more altruistic, less depressed, and less stressed.

  • Here to guide us is Anushka Fernandipoli.

  • Anushka is a meditation teacher who's trained in Buddhist meditation for over 30 years.