Be a houseguest who gets invited back

成为让人愿意再次邀请的房客

Life Kit

2025-08-05

19 分钟
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Whether you're sleeping on your old friend's couch or staying with a family member for a long weekend, we have tips to make sure your presence is a gift and not a chore. What's the ideal amount of time to stay with your host? Should you strip the bed when you leave? When your host says, "Make yourself at home," what does that really mean? In this episode, lifestyle and etiquette expert Elaine Swann answers these questions and more. Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoices NPR Privacy Policy
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  • taxes, immigration, and healthcare.

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  • Hey, it's Marielle.

  • I have friends and family in a lot of different places, and I like to visit them,

  • which means I've had a lot of experience staying at other people's houses.

  • I've slept on couches, in guest bedrooms, on a partly deflated air mattress in a cold,

  • unfinished basement with a spider hovering above me, in a host's bed with them.

  • We were best friends.

  • And without them, they insisted.

  • The sleeping situation has really varied, and the expectations of me as a guest have varied, too.

  • When I'm visiting family outside of New York City,

  • they expect me to stay over, even if we didn't plan for it.

  • And if I ask for permission to, say,

  • use the laundry machine or eat something in the fridge, it's almost an insult.