Hello everybody and welcome back to the psychology of your 20s the podcast where we talk through some of the big life changes and transitions of our 20s and what they mean for our psychology Hello everybody,
welcome back to the show, welcome back to the podcast.
New listeners, old listeners,
whatever you are in the world it is so great to have you here back for another episode
as we of course break down the psychology of our 20s.
Today we are diving into a question that I am going to almost guarantee has probably come up for every single one of us right now,
whether you are in a long-term, stable, committed relationship,
whether you have just started dating someone new, you're single now, you're somewhere in between.
The question is, how do I know whether this person is the one?
How do I know I'm in the right relationship?
How do I know and how will I know that someone is it for me?
It's a very I would say anxiety inducing question.
Who we choose to be in a relationship with is, you know, life defying.
And even
if you don't necessarily believe in the idea of the one or you're skeptical of the idea of a soulmate,
there is still some kind of irrational part of ourselves that really questions whether we're going to find the perfect person for us,
whether that person is out there and whether the person we're with now is actually that person.
How can I tell that this is going to be forever?
How do I know if it's going to work out?
Unfortunately, you know, I can't really answer that question for you,