The Dad They Run To, Not From

You’re probably not 8-foot-11 like Robert Pershing Wadlow, the world’s tallest man, but you are likely taller than your kids. Do they look up to you for any other reasons? In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by Bobby Lewis to talk about the things we need to be to become a good dad.  Our goal as dads should be to connect with our children, which can be a challenge sometimes. Our size can make us feel loud, scary, or intimidating to them. How do we get down on their level and truly connect? Why This Matters Your size, volume level, and mere presence can help or hurt you as a dad. The goal is to make kids feel comfortable and connected around us.  Key Takeaways You probably look really big to your kid. That can feel intimidating. Leverage your size to make your kids feel safe, not scared. Practical Tools for Dads Among many other things kids need you to be, here are 4 you can start putting into practice today: 1. Be Calm.  2. Be Affectionate.  3. Be Safe. 4. Be Strong.  Important Episode Timestamps 00:00 – 00:55 | Introduction & Big Question of the Week 00:55 – 03:18 | The Power of Presence: How Big Dads Feel to Little Kids 03:18 – 04:49 | Start Here: Be Calm 04:49 – 06:13 | Eye Level & Whisper Mode: Tools for Diffusing Tension 06:13 – 09:14 | Be Affectionate: Wrestle, Hug, and Repeat 09:14 – 10:34 | Hugging Isn't Optional: It's Foundational 10:34 – 13:36 | Be Safe: Your Response Is Their Refuge 13:36 – 16:14 | The Power of Gentle Strength 16:14 – 19:50 | Be Strong: Not Just Physically, But Emotionally 19:50 – 21:14 | Pro Move of the Week APD Pro Move: Remember how big you are to your children Leverage that size to make a big, positive impression on your kids. Sponsor: The All Pro Dad Podcast is proudly brought to you by Family First, a nonprofit dedicated to equipping parents with resources to strengthen their families. Learn more at FamilyFirst.net. All Pro Dad Resources: 7 Giant Things Your Kid Needs You to Be We love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info! Connect with Us: Ted Lowe on LinkedIn Bobby Lewis on LinkedIn BJ Foster on LinkedIn Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Get All Pro Dad merch! EXTRAS: Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter) Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox. This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store. Get great content for moms at iMOM.com