How to De-Escalate a Shouting Match

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The Jefferson Fisher Podcast

2025-06-10

16 分钟
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You ever been in a conversation that wasn’t really a conversation—more like words flying at your face at full volume? Yeah, I’ve been there too. In today’s episode, I’m giving you three super practical ways to hold your ground and keep your cool when someone else is losing theirs. This episode is sponsored by Cozy Earth. Upgrade Your Every Day. Get 40% off at cozyearth.com/jefferson or use code JEFFERSON at check out. Order my new book, The Next Conversation, or listen to the full audiobook today. Like what you hear? Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a 5-star review! Suggest a topic or ask a question for me to answer on the show!  Want a FREE communication tip each week? Click here to join my newsletter.  Join My School of Communication Watch my podcast on YouTube  Follow me on Instagram  Follow me on TikTokFollow me on LinkedIn Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  • How do you stay calm when they're not?

  • When somebody is yelling at you, they're mad at you,

  • they're angry, they are shouting, what do you do in that moment?

  • In today's episode, I am going to teach you.

  • I'm going to teach you number one, how to get them to lower their volume.

  • Two, we're going to add space into the conversation.

  • We're going to talk how to do that to regulate our emotions and theirs.

  • And three,

  • I'm going to give you phrases that you can use that is going to help calm and smooth out the situation for a much more productive conversation.

  • You ready?

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