Why Is It Important For Parents to Listen To Their Children?

Is your kid a chatterbox or tight-lipped like a vice? No matter how often your son or daughter opens up, one thing is true—they really want you to listen. In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to break down why parents should listen to their child. Why This Matters Listening well is the key to effective communication between kids and dads. What Happens When We Listen? 1. You show them their words have value 2. You encourage emotional expression 3. You promote confidence and self-worth 4. You get to hear their needs or concerns 5. It improves their problem solving skills 6. it strengthens their emotional regulation 7. It fosters respect and empathy 8. It prevents miscommunication… sometimes.  Important Episode Timestamps 00:00 – 00:55 | Introduction & Big Question of the Week 00:55 – 02:23 | Who Listens to You? The Power of Feeling Heard 02:23 – 04:00 | Why Dads Struggle to Listen 04:00 – 06:05 | Listening Builds Trust, Connection & Emotional Safety 06:05 – 08:12 | Listening Boosts Confidence & Self-Worth 08:12 – 10:24 | What Active Listening Looks Like 10:24 – 12:17 | Helping Kids Process Emotions Through Listening 12:17 – 14:16 | Teaching Respect, Preventing Miscommunication 14:16 – 15:53 | Playbook Time: 5 Easy Questions to Spark Conversation APD Pro Move: Ask your kid some questions this week—fun, serious, curious—and listen intently. Leave us a comment on this episode and share how it went! Listen Again: Episode 37 – Have I Taken the Time to Get to Know My Children For Who They Are? All Pro Dad Resources: 10 Ways to Know You’re Really Listening to Your Kids Why Becoming a Good Listener Will Make You a Better Dad Best Conversation Starters For Teenagers iMOM: Are You Listening to Unders We love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info! Connect with Us: Ted Lowe on LinkedIn Bobby Lewis on LinkedIn BJ Foster on LinkedIn Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Get All Pro Dad merch! EXTRAS: Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter) Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox. This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store. Get great content for moms at iMOM.com