Most Replayed Moment: How to Know If You're Being Gaslit by a Narcissist And What to Do About It: Dr Ramani Durvasula

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  You spend time, even today,

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  dealing with patients who are the victim of a narcissistic relationship or the victim of a narcissist.

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  Every week.

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  Every week.

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  I mean, it's probably one of the, if not the most gratifying part of my week.

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  I'm a big believer that if you're a mental health practitioner, you practice mental health.

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  So that's a privilege to be able to be in that room and to work with clients.

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  But it would be so easy when you're dealing at a macro level.

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  large populations going on YouTube,

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  writing books to get distanced from what is happening to individual people's lives.

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  One of the tricky bits with research is we study populations.

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  We study samples, right?

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  We study hundreds of people.

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  What happens in the room is something very different.

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  And you start to recognize, A, how badly these relationships harm people,

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  their schemas of the world, their schemas of themselves.

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  And B, how much potential for intervention there is with these clients through very,

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  very simple approaches around education about narcissism,

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  validation of their experience, breaking through self-blame and teaching them to trust themselves.

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  So how many patients do you think you've seen that have been victims of narcissists?

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