The connecting power of 'magical questions'

神奇问题的连接力量

Life Kit

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2025-05-13

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Want to cut through small talk at your next mixer? Try asking a "magical question," says Priya Parker, a conflict resolution facilitator and author of the book The Art of Gathering. These questions, like "What is a path you almost took but didn't?" and "What topic could you give a 20 minute talk with zero preparation?" can spark deep and meaningful conversations and foster connection. In this episode, Parker explains how to come up with your own magical questions. Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoices NPR Privacy Policy
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  • Priya Parker is a conflict resolution facilitator and author of the book The Art of Gathering.