Hello, welcome to, or welcome back, I'm trying to take care.
If you're new here, my name is Ashley and I'm really excited for today's episode.
I really do gravitate more towards topics where I could just like talk about what I'm thinking,
what I'm feeling,
share my own experiences and help you guys move through whatever it is that you're struggling with.
Occasionally,
I'll do these very short like motivational videos on TikTok and the response I get from them really does help me gauge what you guys need to hear.
And last week or the week before,
I did a video on You don't understand how someone could do what they did to you
because you would never do that.
And I just kind of wanted to expand on that today.
So in today's episode,
we're going to be talking about how you should stop expecting you from other people,
why you don't understand how someone could do what they did to you,
and just letting people be who they are and not trying to justify their behavior.
I know not everyone does this.
This is probably a people-pleasing trait, but...
When someone mistreats me, I go looking for what I did wrong.
I think a lot of us think other people's behavior is a reflection of us.
I try to justify the behavior because in my head I'm like,