How to have a better romantic relationship (w/ Stephanie Yates-Anyabwile)

如何拥有更美好的恋爱关系(与斯蒂芬妮·耶茨-安亚布韦尔)

How to Be a Better Human

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2025-05-05

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What is a romantic relationship “supposed” to look like? How do you feel when your relationship doesn’t check all the boxes? In this episode, licensed marriage and family therapist Stephanie Yates-Anyabwile talks about everything from how to get into couples counseling to navigating hard conversations to understanding the difference between relationship dynamics in reality and on reality TV (which she actually loves and thinks there’s a lot to learn from watching). Follow Host: Chris Duffy (@chrisiduffy | chrisduffycomedy.com) Guest: Stephanie Yates-Anyabwile (Instagram: @_steph.anya | Youtube: @stephanya)  Links whatsanyamind.com/ Subscribe to TED  Instagram: @ted YouTube: @TED TikTok: @tedtoks LinkedIn: @ted-conferences Website: ted.com Podcasts: ted.com/podcasts For the full text transcript, visit go.ted.com/BHTranscripts Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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  • You're listening to How to Be a Better Human.

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  • When it comes to romantic relationships, they often start with a lot of mystery.

  • We're always trying to figure out what does this person like?

  • What's their favorite food?

  • What makes them laugh?

  • Where are we going to go together?

  • Later on, after you've been together for a while,

  • sometimes we lose a little bit of that curiosity about the specificity of the other person and what our relationship with them is going to look like.

  • Instead, we can sometimes get bogged down in ideas about what a relationship is supposed to be.