The Problem of Finding a Marriageable Man

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2025-04-29

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Women now outnumber men on U.S. college campuses. There’s a common belief that the college gender gap has led to a decrease in marriage rates for college-educated women, but the economist Benny Goldman says the data just don’t support that narrative. Instead, shifts in educational attainment and marriage rates have had a much starker effect on non-college-educated women and low-earning men.  Further reading:  “Bachelors Without Bachelor’s: Gender Gaps in Education and Declining Marriage Rates,” by Benjamin Goldman, Clara Chambers, and Joseph Winkelmann  “Marriage Market Sorting in the U.S,” by Anton Cheremukhin, Paulina Restrepo-Echavarria, and Antonella Tutino Get Married: Why Americans Must Defy the Elites, Forge Strong Families, and Save Civilization, by Brad Wilcox Of Boys and Men: Why the Modern Male Is Struggling, Why It Matters, and What to Do About It, by Richard Reeves  Get more from your favorite Atlantic voices when you subscribe. You’ll enjoy unlimited access to Pulitzer-winning journalism, from clear-eyed analysis and insight on breaking news to fascinating explorations of our world. Subscribe today at TheAtlantic.com/podsub. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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  • Women are so picky.

  • We're gold diggers who want to marry up and would never deign to marry someone less educated than us.

  • If you're on the internet, or just a human being alive today,

  • you've heard something along the lines of this narrative.

  • College-educated women refuse to date down, and it's creating a crisis of marriagelessness.

  • There's just one problem with this narrative.

  • It's not true.

  • My name is Jerusalem Dempsis.

  • I'm a staff writer at The Atlantic, and this is Good On Paper,

  • a policy show that questions what we really know about popular narratives.

  • Joining me today is Benny Goldman.

  • He's a professor of economics at Cornell and the co-author of a fascinating paper chock full of narrative violations about the dating and marriage markets.

  • Benny shows that the rates of marriage for college-educated women

  • as they've faced difficulties finding a partner at the same education level,

  • have remained relatively stable.

  • How?

  • Because they're marrying men without college degrees.

  • But what's happening to women with the least education?

  • If you look at the 25th percentile of the education distribution,

  • roughly three-quarters of women born in 1930 were married.