Happiness Break: Who Takes Care of You?

幸福时刻:谁在照顾你?

The Science of Happiness

社会科学

2025-04-17

9 分钟
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When we feel cared for, our cortisol levels drop, we feel safe, and we handle stress better. Dacher leads a meditation to help us focus on the people who make us feel supported. How To Do This Practice: Get Comfortable: Find a quiet spot. Sit or stand in a relaxed position. Take a few deep breaths to settle your body and mind. Think of a Friend: Picture a friend who has supported you. Notice how it feels to remember their care. What have they given you? Kindness, courage, laughter? Think of a Family Member: Now think of someone in your family (or chosen family) who’s helped you. What moment comes to mind? How did they support you? Name what they gave you. Think of a Mentor: Bring to mind a mentor or guide—someone who’s taught or encouraged you. How did they help you grow? What gift did they offer? Wisdom, strength, direction? Feel the Support: Picture all three people around you. Let yourself feel supported and held. Breathe in that sense of connection. Scroll down for a transcription of this episode. Related Happiness Break episodes: Take a Break With Our Loving-Kindness Meditation: https://tinyurl.com/2kr4fjz5 A Meditation on Original Love: https://tinyurl.com/5u298cv4 Wishing Others’ Well, With Anushka Fernandopulle: https://tinyurl.com/jrkewjs8 Related Science of Happiness episodes: Are You Remembering the Good Times: https://tinyurl.com/483bkk2h Why Friendships Matter More Than We Think: https://tinyurl.com/y99tc9nm Why We Should Seek Beauty: https://tinyurl.com/yn7ry59j Follow us on Instagram: @ScienceOfHappinessPod We’d love to hear about your experience with this practice! Share your thoughts at happinesspod@berkeley.edu or use the hashtag #happinesspod.  Find us on Apple Podcasts: https://tinyurl.com/2p9h5aap Help us share Happiness Break! Leave a 5-star review and share this link: https://tinyurl.com/2p9h5aap Transcription:
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  • Hi, this is Dacher Keltner.

  • Welcome to Happiness Break,

  • a series from the Science of Happiness where we take a few minutes in the day to do a practice that's been supported by science to find greater meaning and happiness and purpose in our lives.

  • Today we're going to do a practice that you might call Circle of Care or Support in honor of the philosopher Peter Singer from Princeton University who wrote about expanding the Circle of Care in 1981.

  • We know from the scientific literature that a sense of support really brings good things to us in terms of well-being.

  • Just feeling supported, lowers levels of cortisol, it activates regions of the brain that bring us a sense of safety,

  • and then it helps us handle stress and feel greater purpose.

  • And expanding the Circle of Care or Support makes us aware of all the people who are supporting us in myriad ways from friends to family members to mentors,

  • strangers on the streets, acquaintances, and they do it in different ways and give us different things.

  • And this practice is bringing that into our awareness in this moment,

  • given all the scientific benefits of being supported.

  • What I'd like you to do is to find a place where you feel safe and comfortable and settle into a posture of ease.

  • You may be sitting or standing, but with a nice posture, rest your hands in a comfortable place.

  • Let's take a nice deep breath in.

  • And breathing out.

  • Another nice deep breath in.

  • And breathing out.

  • Building on that, let's just shift our awareness around the body.

  • Breathing in, relax your shoulders and your face, your jaw, your brow.

  • And breathing out.