Is perfect the enemy of the possible?

完美是否成了可能的敌人?

LSE IQ podcast

教育

2020-10-06

17 分钟
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Contributor(s): Dr Thomas Curran | Jess Winterstein speaks to Dr Thomas Curran about the potential pitfalls of wanting to be perfect. Our society values perfection, but is the concept of perfect really that good for us? The latest episode of LSE IQ explores perfectionism. In this bitesized episode of the LSE IQ podcast, Jess Winterstein speaks to Dr Thomas Curran, Associate Professor in the Department of Psychological and Behavioural Science at LSE. While aspiring to perfection may still be viewed positively by many, Dr Curran’s research reveals that the drive to be the best can potentially do more harm than good. Are the potential downsides worth it when balanced against the possible achievements that can come from being a perfectionist? In a discussion which explores the realities of being a perfectionist, we ask, is perfection really worth it?   Contributors   Dr Thomas Curran https://www.lse.ac.uk/PBS/People/Dr-Tom-Curran   Research  A test of social learning and parent socialization perspectives on the development of perfectionism by Thomas Curran, Daniel J Madigan, Andrew P Hill and Annett Victoria Stornæs https://www.researchgate.net/publication/339433945_A_test_of_social_learning_and_parent_socialization_perspectives_on_the_development_of_perfectionism Perfectionism Is Increasing Over Time: A Meta-Analysis of Birth Cohort Differences From 1989 to 2016 by Thomas Curran and Andrew P. Hill http://eprints.lse.ac.uk/101352/1/Curran_Hill2018.pdf
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  • Welcome to LSE IQ.

  • I'm Jess Winterstein,

  • and this is the podcast where we ask social scientists and other experts to answer one intelligent question.

  • This month, as holidays draw to a close and new school and university years begin,

  • we're bringing you a bite-sized episode.

  • This is a public school program.

  • I will never, ever cut a player who comes out to play for me.

  • But when you put that uniform on, that Titan uniform, you better come to work.

  • We will be perfect.

  • In every aspect of the game, you drop a pass, you run a mile.

  • You miss a blocking assignment, you run a mile.

  • You fumble the football, and I will break my foot off in your John Brown hind-pots.

  • And then you will run a mile.

  • Perfection, let's go to work.

  • And so because I think that a lot of perfectionists, including myself, we use that word because we pretend it's a fault.

  • You actually secretly think it's a virtue.

  • And so the trick is to actually expose it to pull off its fake mask and to expose perfection and call it by its real name,

  • which is fear.

  • That's all it is, it's fear.

  • It's fear that you're not good enough.