obsessed with your ex, advice session

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  Hello and welcome back to advice session a series here on anything goes where you send in your current dilemmas or Anything

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  that you want advice on and I give you my unprofessional advice and today We're gonna be discussing a very complex figure in our lives,

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  and that would be our exes Once we were lovers and now we're strangers Once we showed them our butthole now we show them nothing Once it brought us joy and pleasure to see them at the end of the day Now it brings us fear and anxiety in pain to see them at the end of the day Perhaps at a bar or maybe at a party or at a restaurant It causes almost always negative emotions and even

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  if it causes positive emotions and you're happy to see your ex There's usually some sort of negative undertone It's very unnatural to date somebody and be incredibly close to them and then one day break up and then become complete strangers It's a very unnatural experience,

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  and it's very painful and it's very weird And it's very complicated and today I'm gonna do my best to give you advice about it.

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  Okay So without further ado,

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  let's begin I briefly pause this episode to let you know

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  Let's get back to the episode Somebody said I broke up with my boyfriend,

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  but he still loves me and wants to stay in touch.

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  What do I do?

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  Well a lot of people do not recommend staying in touch After a break up.

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  I'm one of those people.

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  I tend to believe

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  that it's best to give each other At least a few months of space after the break up to properly start the healing process Otherwise,

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  it's impossible if you stay in touch.

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  It's Impossible every time you speak to your ex It's like ripping off the band-aid again from the wound that was created from the break up and then like pouring salt into it and like putting bacteria into it and like causing an infection and then You know when you stop talking again,

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  then you start healing again And you know you put neosporin on it and you put a band-aid and maybe you get stitches And it's good and then you talk to them again And then you rip out all the stitches and then you pour more salt in it and then you you see what I'm saying It's like kind of impossible to heal

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  if you're still in contact

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  because every time you talk You're ripping off the band-aid again and making the wound worse However,

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