Having a baby with your best mate

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2025-03-21

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Nicola Slawson on her decision to have a baby with her best friend, Tom, rather than a romantic partner. Help support our independent journalism at theguardian.com/infocus
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  • This is the Guardian.

  • Today, what happens when you have a baby with your best mate instead of a romantic partner?

  • Hi.

  • Hello.

  • It's a sunny day in Shrewsbury and a very cheery little girl with rosy cheeks and just a few front teeth is keen to see who's at the door.

  • Hello, who's this?

  • Hello, gorgeous girl.

  • She loves visitors.

  • Does she?

  • She was just doing a poo, though.

  • Oh, really?

  • This is Nicholas Lawson, a journalist and writer and her very sociable 11 month old daughter.

  • Should we let them in?

  • Thanks for having us.

  • Nicola recently went back to work and Tom, the baby's dad, took over the shared parental leave.

  • I just love chubby baby legs.

  • The baby can already walk and loves razzing around the living room on her ladybird scooter,

  • carefully manoeuvred by Tom every time she gets into a tight spot.

  • It's the perfect picture of domestic life.

  • A mum, a dad and their longed for baby girl.