Your Job Isn’t Your Family—Here’s Why That Matters

工作非家——为何这一点至关重要

Radio Headspace

心理健康

2025-03-06

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Ever been told your workplace is a “family”? It’s a comforting idea—but often unrealistic. Learn how to set boundaries, avoid toxic loyalty, and build healthier, more balanced work relationships. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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  • Hi, welcome to Radio Headspace.

  • It's Dora, and it's a new day, Thursday.

  • Maybe you've heard this in your place of work before, this idea that we're all family.

  • While working at a seasonal job as a teenager, I once overheard a colleague mention this.

  • We're more than co-workers.

  • We're a family.

  • It was during a team meeting and everyone nodded along.

  • But I couldn't help but wonder, is that really true?

  • Later that week, that same family let go of one of our team members without a second thought.

  • And that phrase stuck with me, this idea of a work family.

  • It sounds comforting, but is it real?

  • Can a workplace truly offer the safety and support of a family?

  • Or is it just a myth we tell ourselves to make the grind feel less lonely?

  • The concept of a work family is meant to foster a sense of safety and connection among employees,

  • but it often clashes with the realities of workplace dynamics.

  • Unlike real families, workplaces are bound by performance metrics, goals, and deadlines.

  • which can make unconditional love and acceptance impossible.

  • However, mindfulness can help us to examine our relationships, including those with coworkers,

  • through a lens of understanding and balance and learning how to honor differences without being divided by them.

  • If we can approach our workplace with this perspective,