Breaking Free from Love's Desperate Chase & Finding Self-Worth | Jillian Turecki EP 884

"The worst thing you can do is think 'Oh, you're not choosing me? Let me do something to get chosen.' Let me change myself, let me not tell the truth... Stop strategizing to get some Joe Schmoe who you don't even know, who probably is not right for you." - Jillian Turecki Relationship coach Jillian Turecki opens up about the painful reality many face in their search for love. Drawing from her own vulnerable admission of spending two years trying to convince her husband to love her, she explores why we often fall into the trap of changing ourselves to win someone's affection. With profound insight, she addresses the complex emotions that drive us to pursue unavailable partners - from the pressure of biological clocks to the deep-seated fear of being alone. Turecki shares transformative wisdom about the importance of emotional resilience and self-acceptance in dating. She challenges listeners to shift their perspective on rejection, viewing it not as a personal failure but as a natural part of life's journey. Through practical guidance, she illustrates how to balance excitement about new connections with healthy discernment, emphasizing the vital practice of processing enthusiasm while remaining grounded in reality. Her approach offers a refreshing framework for navigating modern relationships without losing yourself in the process.