2025-02-03
6 分钟Hi, my name is Lewis Howes and welcome to the Daily Motivation show.
So, around 46,
you made a decision that just being a protector and a provider was not all you wanted to do anymore.
I saw it destroying my marriage.
Really?
I lack patience.
I didn't even understand emotions as far as what a woman is feeling.
So again, if you're, I mean, my brothers were drug dealers, you know,
and I grew up in an area where I'm in the middle of gangs from each mile road in Detroit.
So I didn't know how to express or really feel emotions outside of being tough and strong or appearing to be what we would call a thug,
which I've made an acronym for, which is a traumatized human unable to grieve.
I said, this isn't living.
And when me and Nicole, we were arguing our last time before we decided to get a separation in 2015.
So look at the time span there.
I said, I need to really dig deep into what's causing me to be this man.
What's caused me not to embrace all of the human attributes that I've been given by the most high?
And it was my childhood trauma.
It was my father wound.
It was the losses that I've experienced
that had shaped my mind into believing another loss is coming.