She thought she knew her family — until she took a DNA test

她以为她认识她的家人——直到她接受了 DNA 测试

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2022-04-16

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When Amber van Moessner was growing up, she never questioned whether the man who raised her was her biological father. But when she was in her late 20s, she took a 23andMe genetic test and discovered that she was conceived via a sperm donor. Van Moessner’s story kicks off the podcast series BioHacked: Family Secrets, hosted by T.J. Raphael. Hear Shumita Basu’s interview with Raphael and van Moessner about the donor-conception industry.
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  • This is in conversation from Apple News.

  • I'm Shemitah Basu.

  • When Amber Van Moesner was growing up, her parents used to call her their miracle baby.

  • I was born quite late into my parents marriage, and I had been told my whole life that they were told by doctors that they couldn't conceive and that they had just magically had a healthy baby.

  • And that was me.

  • She never questioned that story until she was in her late 20s when she got the results back from a 23andMe genetic test.

  • So the first thing that popped up was that my ethnicity was predominantly Ashkenazi Jewish.

  • And that was a huge surprise.

  • Even after doing some research, she couldn't find anyone on either side of her family who was Jewish.

  • And I immediately called my parents, and they just kind of swept it under the rug.

  • My dad was like, oh, I guess like, I must be Jewish then.

  • But then Amber received a message through 23andMe from a woman who said, hey, we're a match.

  • I'm your half sister.

  • I was conceived via a sperm donor.

  • Were you donor conceived, too?

  • My mind just started reeling.

  • I remember my first reaction was I didn't even know what the term donor conceived meant.

  • This message completely changed Amber's life.

  • She confronted her parents, and finally the truth came out.

  • All right, well, this has been heavy on my heart, honey.