Love now and did you fall in love last fella?
Love, love, but stronger than anything.
And I love you more than anything.
You're still up Love from the New York Times, I'm Anna Martin.
This is Modern Love.
Every week we've been bringing you stories and conversations inspired by the Modern Love column.
We talk about love, lust, heartbreak and all the messiness of relationships.
And mess is how a lot of people would describe the dating world.
This past year I kept seeing headlines all over the place about how bad dating has gotten.
Stuff like is dating a total nightmare for you right now?
Or how to declutter your dating life.
It's been a year that's felt like people are finally fed up with situationships, with cuffing season, with ghosting, endless swiping.
There's just a lot of pent up frustration and we wanted to give you all the opportunity to let it out.
The worst date I've ever gone on made me feel pretty hopeless about how men think about women.
So I opened the car door and literally trash just comes spilling out.
So basically the rest of the night I was alone in the stands while Amanda was down on the field with her friend Danny.
But it turns out it's not just this past year.
Bad dates haunt us.
Some of you had vivid memories of horrible dates from decades ago.
It was 1980 and I was a 19 year old when I was in high school.