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From WBC Chicago, it's this American Life.
I'm Ira Glass.
I'm joined in the studio right now by my coworker, Tobin Lowe.
Hey there, Tobin.
Hi, Ira.
And I'm just gonna say that the story you're about to tell you acknowledge the existence of sex, but that's really all that you acknowledge, that it exists.
Tell me what happened.
Yeah, okay, so this guy Paul, this happened when he was in his early 20s, and he arranges this hookup with a guy he meets online.
And I should say the guy, his profile doesn't have that much info.
Like, it says he's closeted, that if they're gonna meet up, it has to be very discreet.
He said I couldn't go over to his place.
And I also had a roommate, so it would have been difficult for me to host him as well.
So he told me, I know a spot.
I know a spot that we can go.
Why don't you just meet me at these cross streets at 10 o'clock?
And I said, okay, works for me.
And so I drove over at night to where he told me to meet him.