A quick warning.
There are curse words that are unbeeped in today's episode of the show.
If you prefer a beeped version, you can find that at our website, thisamericanlife.org something's in your life you decide you're never going to talk about.
For Jules, it was what her youth pastor did to her long ago when she was a teenager in Texas.
She tried to put it aside, tried to move on.
But then me too happened when so many more women reporting men who'd assaulted.
Or harassed them and Matt Lauer had been on the front cover of the USA Today.
And I thought, oh my goodness.
It inspired me so much that that very day I wrote to my abuser who was now a pastor at a megachurch.
He never responded.
So she wrote a blog post about it, thinking, you know, maybe 100 people would see it.
But that was not the moment we were in.
It became international news.
And because of MeToo, there were consequences that would have been unimaginable.
Just a year before the former youth pastor resigned from his job at the megachurch, Things changed for Jules too.
All of a sudden, lots of women were calling her for advice on how to handle what they were going through.
She found a lot of meaning in those conversations.
She set up a non profit that funds therapy for women who've been sexually assaulted.
But there were aftershocks from her MeToo moment that she never could have guessed.
Like with her three daughters.