2024-12-11
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From the New York Times, I'm Anna Martin.
This is modern love.
Are you ready to go?
I'm ready to go.
Let's do it.
Today I'm talking to my colleague, Eli Tan.
Thanks for having me on.
Eli is a reporter at the Times.
He's 26.
He lives in San Fr.
And he's single.
That means Eli, like nearly every other single person I know is on the dating apps.
And also, just like every other single person I know, Eli thinks the dating apps are awful.
He told me every conversation he has feels exactly the same, honestly.
Feels like kind of this liminal interaction that you can have, you know, a dozen times a day where it's always, you know, the same type of thing, and no one ever remembers the conversation they have with someone on a dating app, even when they.
You never continue that in the real world.
It's kind of this weird, like, performative interaction that you do just to get to the next step.
Do you feel sort of trapped by these apps?
Like, do you feel like it's the only way that you can meet people?