When being heard becomes a business

闲鱼"夸夸师"走红:二十块钱买来的倾听,算治愈吗

Round Table China

2026-09-11

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Across China, people are paying strangers for what friends used to give for free — a listener to vent to, or someone to offer custom compliments and rebuild confidence. Maybe connection isn't the problem. Maybe trust is. Today, we're asking what happens when we'd rather pay a stranger than lean on the people we know. On the show: Steve, Yushan & Yushun
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  • Discussion keeps the world turning.

  • This is Round Table.

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  • Coming up, across China, people are paying strangers for what friends used to give for free:

  • a listener to vent to, or someone to offer custom compliments and help rebuild confidence.

  • Maybe connection isn't the problem, maybe trust is.

  • Today we'll ask what happens when we'd rather pay a stranger

  • than lean on the people we know.

  • You'd think with all the digital voices ready to reassure us that we'd never feel unheard.

  • Yet a quiet economy has taken shape here in China:

  • professional listeners who offer a safe space to vent,

  • and also self-styled compliment experts who help people rebuild confidence.

  • It's easy to laugh off, perhaps,

  • but then you realize how many people are actually paying for it and using it.

  • Maybe the algorithms are a little too perfect.

  • Maybe the people closest to us are too busy.

  • Either way, we're paying for something that used to be free of charge: someone who actually stops and listens.

  • So, today we'll ask what happens when the voices we already have aren't enough,

  • and also what we're really buying when we're paying for kindness.

  • Now, this is a really interesting one to me, Yuxun and Yushan,