Revisit - Confidence Isn't Feeling Good. Confidence is Self-Trust.

回顾一下——信心并不让人感觉良好。 信心就是自信心。

Good Inside with Dr. Becky

2024-09-24

29 分钟
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Dr. Becky talks to a mom who is doing all the right things to teach her son to believe in himself but it just isn’t working.
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  • I'm Dr.

  • Becky and this is Good Inside.

  • So your kid comes home from school or gymnastics or baseball and tells you that they just can't do it.

  • It's too hard and everyone else in their class is better at the thing than they are.

  • Well,

  • this week I'm talking to a mom who's been doing all the right things to teach her son to believe in himself and it still isn't working.

  • And I think what triggered probably my worry was my son was like placed into a like gifted and talented pre-program.

  • He struggled with it.

  • And he told me, I'm the worst in the class.

  • I always finished last.

  • I'm dumb.

  • I don't want to be in this class.

  • And I think he was accustomed to being kind of like the first one in his class being finished.

  • being praised for doing well, and once he was placed in the class,

  • he felt like he was the worst out of this group of other children.

  • We'll be back right after this.

  • My name is Christine.

  • I have two boys ages eight and six.

  • I'm a, I guess, recent COVID stay-at-home mom.

  • Prior to that, I was working, and so I'm now very involved in the day-to-day lives of my boys.