2024-11-29
17 分钟No amount of fixing your life will make that kid go away.
Right.
So, like, when I work with people who are.
I see you smiling.
So, like, when I work with people who have been traumatized, they will build amazing lives, but they still carry that kid with them, and the kid will come out at times, there'll be particular times where if I'm a little bit, like, if I, like, treat you in the wrong way, like, you'll notice that you feel like that kid again.
When.
When you're idle, you feel like that kid again.
So that psychological.
That neuronal wiring is there so you can build all this wonderful stuff, and there's authenticity.
It's not like you're faking it.
This is a really common misconception that.
Are you faking?
No.
You're genuinely confident.
You're genuinely authentic.
You can't fake it and get to where you are.
And at the same time, the wounds that we experience leave scars.
Yeah, 100%.
And the real way to heal is to go back to that moment and, like, deal with that kid.
Right.