Mistakenly Seeking Solitude

错误地寻求孤独

The Happiness Lab with Dr. Laurie Santos

2019-10-08

34 分钟
PDF

单集简介 ...

Technology allows us to bank, shop and dine without talking to another human, but what toll is this taking on our happiness? The inventor of the ATM and the Talking Heads singer David Byrne join Dr Laurie Santos to explore the ways in which talking to strangers can bring us all genuine joy.   For an even deeper dive into the research we talk about in the show visit https://www.happinesslab.fm/  Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
更多

单集文稿 ...

  • Pushkin.

  • The fighting in the streets of Saigon during the New Year, or Tet Offensive, made the war too real.

  • Tonight I have ordered our aircraft and our naval vessels to make no attacks on North Vietnam.

  • It's 1968.

  • A pretty tumultuous year.

  • Head wrapped in a combat bandage being helped across the road now.

  • Officers also reportedly chased and fired on a radio equipped car.

  • But there was one event in 1968 that didn't make the headlines,

  • even though it's still having a huge effect on your well-being.

  • I had to wait, wait, wait,

  • and I really got a little bit avogate because I knew I had the money there,

  • so all I had to do was cash a check and get out of there.

  • This is Don Wetzel.

  • He's recalling a fateful day in November of that year.

  • When he was trying to do something simple, he just wanted to withdraw some cash at his bank.

  • I was scheduled to take a trip on a Monday morning, so on Friday, on lunch hour, I went to my bank.

  • to get some money.

  • I would say maybe eight to ten people in line.

  • My guess is, you know, maybe I was in that line for like 18 to 20 minutes just to cash a check.

  • Don's time was really valuable.