Keep Your Relationship Healthy

保持你们的关系健康

The Happiness Lab with Dr. Laurie Santos

2020-04-02

25 分钟
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The health of our romantic relationships is in peril thanks to the many stresses and strains of the pandemic lockdown. Couples might be facing huge emotional and financial challenges at the same time as being tightly confined to their homes. But psychologist Eli Finkel (author The All-or-Nothing Marriage) says there are ways to weather the crisis without destroying your partnership - and there might even be opportunities to hit the reset button and address problems that in normal times you just let slide. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  • Pushkin.

  • Welcome to a special set of episodes of The Happiness Lab.

  • The now global spread of coronavirus is affecting all of us.

  • This disease has brought a host of medical, economic, and political problems.

  • But it's also given us a ton of uncertainty and anxiety,

  • which are beginning to have an enormous negative impact on our collective well-being.

  • But whenever I'm confused or fearful,

  • I remember that looking for answers in evidence-based science is always the best way to go.

  • And that's where I'm hoping this podcast can help.

  • One of the most common questions I've gotten from listeners about how to handle this awful COVID-19 crisis is how we can all protect our relationships during this crazy time.

  • Lots of us are facing the completely novel situation of being forced to shelter in place with our partners.

  • And while it's really good to be with the people we love during a scary period,

  • it can also be really, really tough and way more aggravating than I expected.

  • Which is kind of ironic.

  • I mean,

  • I've dreamed about having some work-related stuff get canceled just so I could stay home and have some quality time with my husband.

  • But I was thinking fuzzy socks and a nice glass of wine some weekend.

  • Being forced to shelter in place for months was not part of the fantasy.

  • It's much harder to prioritize our marriages.

  • while also running a babysitting service, or a middle school, or an elderly care facility.