2020-10-05
28 分钟Pushkin.
One of the biggest lies our minds tell us is that happiness will be ours
if we can just get the next thing we really want.
That if we only got that new promotion or that new love interest or that new outfit,
then we'd finally be eternally happy.
I mean, it's true that all of those things will give us some joy,
but the effects are more fleeting than we think.
Many things we yearn and strive for are fragile.
Dresses rip, companies fold, lovers leave, or die.
That means we end up grieving for the happiness we've lost and thirsting for something new yet again.
There are good reasons rooted in evolution for all this constant striving,
but it comes at an emotional cost, and it's the root of lots of heartache and suffering.
So in this final episode of our historical mini-season, We're reaching way,
way back in time to a thinker who recognized the sadness that hunger,
yearning, and loss can bring, and one who also offered us a way to deal with the pain.
Today, we're turning to the Buddha.
Welcome back to Happiness Lessons of the Ancients with me, Dr.
Larry Santos.
Oh, man, I don't know if I can do a quick Buddha 101.
I love telling and retelling the story of the Buddha.