Treating the Pain of a Broken Heart

治疗破碎的心的痛苦

The Happiness Lab with Dr. Laurie Santos

2021-08-23

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Being shunned by a lover, a school or an employer hurts - but we're only just beginning to understand how real this pain is and what steps we can take to administer a bit of emotional first aid to stop the experience scarring us for good. Dr Laurie Santos talks to leading experts in the science of rejection... and to actor/marine/golfer Tim Colceri about one of the most extreme real life stories of humiliation and dashed hopes you're ever likely to hear. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  • Pushkin.

  • I had nobody to talk to about what I was going through, so I called my father, my dad,

  • who was really not a religious man, said, Tim,

  • if you're hurting this bad, maybe you should go to church.

  • And I said, church?

  • Why would I want to go to church?

  • Why would God do this to me?

  • I'm mad at God.

  • This is Tim Corsairi.

  • Tim is telling me about the worst day of his life.

  • A day that tested his faith, and one that as you'll hear, still feels like an open wound.

  • A lot of time has passed since the awful day that changed Tim's life forever.

  • But as Tim and I chatted,

  • it was clear that the pain he felt that fateful day was still very fresh in his mind.

  • I was just, oh my god, the whole time for so long.

  • So what was the event that caused such awful and such long-lasting pain for decades?

  • Tim got rejected.

  • As you'll soon hear in some historic detail, Tim suffered one of the most incredible,

  • protracted, and over-the-top rejections I'd ever heard of.

  • But even