The Kindness of Strangers

陌生人的善意

The Happiness Lab with Dr. Laurie Santos

2021-09-20

32 分钟
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When Kitty Genovese was murdered, her family and the wider world was told that bystanders watched, but did nothing to intervene. Psychologists tried to explain this callous inaction with a popular theory - the "bystander effect". Dr Laurie Santos was taught this theory - that most people won't in step help - but talking to Kitty's brother and Lady Gaga's mother she reveals that the "bystander effect" is wrong. People do like helping out, and we get a happiness boost from being kind. So how do we encourage more bystanders to intervene? Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  • Pushkin.

  • On the morning of March 13, 1964,

  • a murder took place in Queens, New York that shook the entire country.

  • The crime itself was awful,

  • but the behavior of bystanders who witnessed the event caused widespread revulsion in years of national soul searching.

  • The incident became the impetus for setting up the 911 emergency call system that we have today.

  • and transformed the path of psychological research for decades to come.

  • I first heard the story when I took intro psych as a college freshman back in the 90s.

  • I dug out my old textbook to see how it was described.

  • Here it is on page 544 of Peter Gray's psychology, second edition.

  • In a normally quiet neighborhood in New York City,

  • a young woman named Kitty Genovese was brutally attacked for a period of 30 minutes outside her apartment building.

  • Her screams drew the attention of at least 38 people who watched through their apartment windows

  • while she was repeatedly stabbed and finally murdered.

  • Not one of the bystanders came to her aid or even called the police.

  • The incident stirred a national outcry.

  • Have we become so inured to horror that we simply watch it without lifting a finger?

  • More than 25 years on, I still remember how shocked I was by that paragraph.

  • Several dozen people stood there and watched Kitty scream.

  • How could so many people witness something so awful and just do nothing?