A Daily Workout to Tackle Nagging Self-Criticism

应对烦人的自我批评的日常锻炼

The Happiness Lab with Dr. Laurie Santos

2023-01-16

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Lots of us hit the gym in January to get fit - but should we also be exercising our minds in preparation for tough times? A daily "self-talk workout" might be just as beneficial as squats and push-ups, says Seattle University psychology professor Rachel Turow.  By practicing simple self-compassion exercises each day - such as breathing techniques - we can prepare for future challenges when we'll need those tools to help us tackle crippling self-criticism or paralyzing sorrow.  Further reading: The Self Talk Workout by Rachel Turow  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  • Pushkin Surveys show that this year's top New Year's resolution,

  • the thing that more than 50% of folks who made January resolutions have committed to getting more of in 2023,

  • is exercise.

  • Which, from the perspective of a happiness professor like me, should be a good thing.

  • because there's lots and lots of scientific evidence that working out regularly can significantly improve our self-reported happiness.

  • But the research shows that our bodies aren't the only things that could use a good workout this year.

  • In fact,

  • our guest today argues that we might want to swap at least some of those New Year's bench presses and leg curls for a different kind of training,

  • one that focuses on toughening something that we often forget can have a big effect on our stress levels,

  • our performance, and our happiness.

  • We'll see today that if we really want to feel better in 2023,

  • we probably need to devote at least a few of our workouts to improving our inner self-talk.

  • So get ready to sweat out your inner critic and strengthen those self-compassion muscles,

  • because the Happiness Lab is about to hit the gym for our first-ever,

  • new year, new you, self-talk workout.

  • Our minds are constantly telling us what to do to be happy, but what if our minds are wrong?

  • What if our minds are lying to us, leading us away from what will really make us happy?

  • The good news is that understanding the science of the mind can point us all back in the right direction.

  • You're listening to the Happiness Lab with Dr.

  • Laurie Santos.