Love Lessons from the "Masters of Relationships"

“关系大师”的爱情教训

The Happiness Lab with Dr. Laurie Santos

2024-02-12

45 分钟
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Some people are just good at building and maintaining healthy partnerships. In their 'Love Lab", the married researchers Dr John Gottman and Dr Julie Schwartz Gottman have seen how certain couples interact in ways that mean they'll happily stick together for decades.  The Gottmans join Dr Laurie Santos to explain what we can learn from these "Masters of Relationships" - so that the stresses and strains of life don't destroy our intimate partnerships.  Further reading: Fight Right: How Successful Couples Turn Conflict into Connection by Dr John Gottman and Dr Julie Schwartz Gottman.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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  • Pushkin.

  • These days, there's really no shortage of relationship advice out there.

  • There are the usual Dear Abby and Modern Love type columns in newspapers and magazines.

  • There are also reality TV dating shows, couples podcasts, TikTok videos,

  • Instagram reels, Reddit dating threads, and on and on and on.

  • Some of this advice is helpful.

  • But a lot of it isn't backed up by empirical evidence.

  • So in this new season of the Happiness Lab,

  • I wanted to explore what the science says about building happier relationships.

  • And what better way to begin than with a husband and wife team that not only has decades of married life experience to draw on,

  • but also a wealth of knowledge gained from some truly elegant scientific studies.

  • Julie's walking around with her grandson on her arms.

  • How old is he?

  • He is going to be two in January.

  • Yeah, he just started doing imaginative play this morning.

  • Okay, Jules.

  • I like being floated.

  • Dr.

  • Julie Schwartz-Gobbin is a clinical psychologist who's helped people facing challenges in many domains of life,

  • including in their romantic relationships.