288: Relationship Repair with Shane Birkel

第288期:与Shane Birkel探讨关系修复

The Couples Therapist Couch

2026-04-21

27 分钟
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This episode is brought to you by Alma. Visit https://helloalma.com/dg/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=paid&utm_campaign=privatepractice to learn more Sign up for the June 2026 Cohort of Shane's Certified Couples Intensive Training (CIT): https://cit.shanebirkel.com/ Get the Couples Therapy 101 course: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/ Join the Couples Therapist Inner Circle: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/inner-circle-new Join The Couples Therapist Couch Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/295562197518469/ In this solo episode, Shane talks relationship repair. Hear why repair is one of the most underrated skills in a relationship, the research experiments behind relationship repair, why the rupture is inevitable, why repair is so hard for so many couples, and how to help your clients build their capacity for repair.
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  • Repair only works when both people trust that the other person is fundamentally

  • committed to not being emotionally harmful.

  • Welcome to the Couples Therapist Couch, the podcast for couples therapists,

  • marriage counselors, and relationship coaches to explore the practice of couples therapy.

  • And now your host, Shane Burkle.

  • Hey, everybody.

  • Welcome back to the Couples Therapist Couch.

  • This is Shane Burkle, and this is the podcast that's all about the practice of couples therapy.

  • Thank you so much for tuning in. I'm a licensed marriage and family therapist,

  • and the goal of this podcast is to help you learn how to more effectively work with couples and possibly even

  • learn how to have a better relationship.

  • The episode this week is brought to you by Alma.

  • They make it easy to get credentialed with major insurance plans at enhanced reimbursement rates.

  • Alma handles all of the paperwork and guarantees payment within two weeks.

  • Visit helloalma. com or click on the link in the show notes to learn more.

  • All right, I'm going to dive right in today.

  • I want to talk about something that I think is one of the most important and most underrated skills in couples therapy.

  • And I mean, it is something that I think therapists think about a lot and talk about a lot,

  • but I think we could talk about it even more.

  • And that is repair.