2026-04-03
17 分钟Does this sound familiar?
Your partner does n't get something done or does n't do something you want them to do,
and you 're immediately frustrated and thinking to yourself, what the heck, why are n't they doing it?
And on the other side, your partner is sitting there like.
What just happened?
What the F just happened?
Why am I getting the shark eye?
And before you know it, you 're back in that same argument that you 've had over and over and over,
and it seems like nothing is changing.
And if this strikes a nerve, and I'm sure it does, you are probably living inside what we call implicit agreements,
things that actually feel very real, but were never spoken about.
Out loud.
You see, there are rules in relationship that you didn't realize you were creating.
Things that you inside your head just thought like, well, my partner should just know.
And these things are silently causing you major problems.
And what's tricky is because it feels so true for you don't even question it.
It's just obvious.
Hello.
And the wild thing is the thing that you think is going to make you feel right in that moment.
Thing that's setting your partner up to fail.